Disgruntled spouses can now use their iPhone 4S’s to nab cheating husbands and wives. Private investigators are striking globally. Is there anything this phone can’t do?
Welcome to iCheers, where everybody knows your whereabouts. Both Apple and Foursquare are offering new tools for iOS5 that will let us know where our friends are at all times. The iPhone’s ‘Find My Friends‘ feature is pervasive tracking of any of your friends (who opt-in), whereas Foursquare’s Radar simply lets you know anytime a friend (who has opted in) comes into your vicinity, whether you have the Foursquare app running or not. You used to need a private investigator to keep track of people this closely. Now you can just install the ‘Find My Friends’ app on your wife’s new iPhone 4s without her knowledge and see if she goes where she said she was going to go on a Saturday night. That’s what one Machead claims to have done this weekend, and now he’s planning to file for a divorce.
Late Saturday night, “ThomasMetz” posted to MacRumors (via 9to5Mac) about how he turned his wife’s iPhone into a spyPhone:
I got my wife a new 4s and loaded up find my friends without her knowing. She told me she was at her friends house in the east village. I’ve had suspicions about her meeting this guy who live [sic] uptown. Lo and behold, Find my Friends has her right there.
This could well be a hoax, though the cuckolded spouse did post screenshots of his conversation with his wife as proof:
For non-New Yorkers, “meat packing” is not a reference to what she might have been doing on the Upper East Side, but is the name for a neighborhood much farther south and west where pretty people go to drink, dance, and look pretty.
It speaks to our culture of over-sharing that this guy would want to post his pain to a message forum, where it had the potential to go viral. But there were some voices of reason there, such as the person who wrote:
You should have divorced before you felt it necessary to spy. Good luck with the next one. Take some time before getting into anything.
By the way. It will mean nothing in court. Lying is proved. Cheating is not. I’m sure there’s an app for that.
In case you’re worried about this guy getting into legal trouble for spying on his wife, be aware of a previous case, in New Jersey, where a judge found that it was okay for a wife to surreptitiously put a GPS tracker on her husband’s car (again to check for extramarital activities). The judge ruled that, because she jointly owned the car, she had the right to install the tracker. However, the judge also said that it did not violate the cheating husband’s right to privacy because he was only being tracked on public streets where the car (and he) were in public view. The fact that a phone goes into a household, out of public view, may make this kind of tracking a bit more legally complicated.
Regardless, it’s fairly amazing that within a week of the feature being released, it’s already allegedly been used this way. A video currently making the rounds — of a baby so used to playing with iPads that she thinks a magazine is “broken” — has prompted discussions of how technology transforms us and “changes our OS” (That’s “operating system,” for the non-geeks out there). I wonder how technologies that allow us to perform near-constant location-surveillance of our friends will transform how we operate.
Just as the baby expects a magazine page to be interactive, will we start expecting our friends to be part of our location ecosystem? Will being given technology tools that make law-enforcement-style surveillance so easy a baby could do it transform us (more than Facebook already has) into a society of spies? Just as we expect everyone to have a Facebook account, perhaps we’ll start expecting everyone to volunteer their whereabouts at all times, as part of the “social OS.” If a friend (or a spouse) chooses NOT to be tracked, will we assume they are up to no good?
Did you download the ‘Find My Friends’ App? Are you breaking your cheating story on the Maury Show? Some may think this is yet another privacy invasion – do you? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!